...get someone out of a relationship so you can start dating them and whatnot. Ive never been interested in someone who already has a BF enough to try to kill that relationship and get with me, so I have no idea how to pull this off.
Shes in my microbiology class with me, but it only meets once a week, which makes this even more difficult. She may or may not be living with him as well, which creates another possible challenge.
All Ive got so far is giving her my number after we and and couple other people from class go out for some drinks after the final and tell her to call me if she gets rid of her BF or just wants to get some drinks ever again.
Im screwed :-/
I'd explain to her how you think her vagina is a money vacuum...
QuoteI'd explain to her how you think her vagina is a money vacuum...
vaginal generalizations doesnt mean
everyones vagina is a money vacuum. I dont think hers is
thanks for the advice T >:(
express interest in her, then hit on/start dating another girl in class blatantly in front of her (make sure she's just as pretty)
follow these simple instructions.
# 1 - go rent a wood chipper
# 2 - ask current boyfriend to meet you out for drinks.
# 3- slip some GHB in his drink when not looking
# 4 - offer to drive him home
# 5 - insert boyfriend into woodchipper
And they live happily ever after ;) :)
Tell her you know me
Quoteexpress interest in her, then hit on/start dating another girl in class blatantly in front of her (make sure she's just as pretty)
this stategy likely wouldnt work because seriously every other female in this class is a troll, 55 years old, or 200lbs (and in some instances, all 3).
theres only 1 other one whose good looking, and I know she has a kid and I think she might be engaged. either way, I dont think hitting on her will help this. I think our mid-40's Brazilian teacher has something for me though 8-)
Id say she knows Im interested since we talk a good bit and I ask her various things about her and what she did lately and all, and judging by the situation since shes currently taken, I dont see how I can express that more than by doing what I said in the OP
QuoteQuoteexpress interest in her, then hit on/start dating another girl in class blatantly in front of her (make sure she's just as pretty)
this stategy likely wouldnt work because seriously every other female in this class is a troll, 55 years old, or 200lbs (and in some instances, all 3).
theres only 1 other one whose good looking, and I know she has a kid and I think she might be engaged. either way, I dont think hitting on her will help this. I think our mid-40's Brazilian teacher has something for me though 8-)
Id say she knows Im interested since we talk a good bit and I ask her various things about her and what she did lately and all, and judging by the situation since shes currently taken, I dont see how I can express that more than by doing what I said in the OP
then you need to NOT express interest in her; try the opposite effect and see if it works? girls respond well to aversion (fo realz--take it from me, i have made a career out of getting turned off the min i hear a guy likes me and interested when someone ignores me)
now that might work. its going to be hard to ignore her though since she gives me her notes/outline for each chapter and lets me look at her tests if I need any "extra help". [smiley=happy.gif]
plus, if I act like Im not interested, wouldnt that lessen my chances of her actually calling me once I give her my number and class is over?
Argh! :D
Quotenow that might work. its going to be hard to ignore her though since she gives me her notes/outline for each chapter and lets me look at her tests if I need any "extra help". [smiley=happy.gif]
plus, if I act like Im not interested, wouldnt that lessen my chances of her actually calling me once I give her my number and class is over?
Argh! :D
NO. just get her notes and act like she doesn't exist outside of that. trust me. your methods have already failed. if this doesn't work, see above for the wood chipper idea.
Flirting is the best possible thing. And do it the way you know how... By being yourself. I know it sounds cheesy as shit, but if she doesn't like you for who you are, and doesn't want to be with you, then you don't want a serious relationship. Trust Me, I've found out the hard way over the years.
Quote...get someone out of a relationship so you can start dating them and whatnot. Ive never been interested in someone who already has a BF enough to try to kill that relationship and get with me, so I have no idea how to pull this off.
Shes in my microbiology class with me, but it only meets once a week, which makes this even more difficult. She may or may not be living with him as well, which creates another possible challenge.
All Ive got so far is giving her my number after we and and couple other people from class go out for some drinks after the final and tell her to call me if she gets rid of her BF or just wants to get some drinks ever again.
Im screwed :-/
Has she given you any indication that she wants to get rid of her boyfriend? I'd say give her your number and leave it alone, wait for her to come to you if she's interested. Seriously, you didn't invent this and it rarely works out to anyone's benefit. Or take Tracy's advice. Either way. ;)
QuoteQuotenow that might work. its going to be hard to ignore her though since she gives me her notes/outline for each chapter and lets me look at her tests if I need any "extra help". [smiley=happy.gif]
plus, if I act like Im not interested, wouldnt that lessen my chances of her actually calling me once I give her my number and class is over?
Argh! :D
NO. just get her notes and act like she doesn't exist outside of that. trust me. your methods have already failed. if this doesn't work, see above for the wood chipper idea.
if ignoring her for the next 2 months ends up being a winner, I owe you a few drinks next time im in NYC
how have I already failed though? :-?
QuoteQuote...get someone out of a relationship so you can start dating them and whatnot. Ive never been interested in someone who already has a BF enough to try to kill that relationship and get with me, so I have no idea how to pull this off.
Shes in my microbiology class with me, but it only meets once a week, which makes this even more difficult. She may or may not be living with him as well, which creates another possible challenge.
All Ive got so far is giving her my number after we and and couple other people from class go out for some drinks after the final and tell her to call me if she gets rid of her BF or just wants to get some drinks ever again.
Im screwed :-/
Has she given you any indication that she wants to get rid of her boyfriend?
umm...no? ;D
the odds are against it because girls rarely break up w/their boyfriends for someone else; but aside from all the games i'm telling you to play, Sass and Goose are both probably right on this one.
You've got nothing to lose by ignoring her. I meant your methods have failed bec she hasn't responded to you flirting w/her and giving her your no. Try backing off (ignoring her) and see what happens. after that, go bark up another tree cuz women and men are like buses (lol)
Quote...get someone out of a relationship so you can start dating them and whatnot. Ive never been interested in someone who already has a BF enough to try to kill that relationship and get with me, so I have no idea how to pull this off.
Shes in my microbiology class with me, but it only meets once a week, which makes this even more difficult. She may or may not be living with him as well, which creates another possible challenge.
All Ive got so far is giving her my number after we and and couple other people from class go out for some drinks after the final and tell her to call me if she gets rid of her BF or just wants to get some drinks ever again.
Im screwed :-/
yeah, you kind of are. no offense.
just going to be blunt here and say my best advice would be to stay away, especially if the girl and her dude are serious enough to be living together. don't go down that road.
plenty of other chicks out there, man. :)
Heady, Heady, Heady. *shakes head(y)*
Quotethe odds are against it because girls rarely break up w/their boyfriends for someone else; but aside from all the games i'm telling you to play, Sass and Goose are both probably right on this one.
You've got nothing to lose by ignoring her. I meant your methods have failed bec she hasn't responded to you flirting w/her and giving her your no. Try backing off (ignoring her) and see what happens. after that, go bark up another tree cuz women and men are like buses (lol)
Arent they telling me 2 different things though?!
And she doesnt have my number, yyyettt
Why do you want to be the dirt in a money vacuum?
QuoteWhy do you want to be the dirt in a money vacuum?
ouch!
good work there man, nice.
QuoteQuoteWhy do you want to be the dirt in a money vacuum?
ouch!
good work there man, nice.
Thanks,
fuckin' kids... never rub another man's rhubarb!
QuoteQuoteQuoteWhy do you want to be the dirt in a money vacuum?
ouch!
good work there man, nice.
Thanks,
fuckin' kids... never rub another man's rhubarb!
Get off my lawn!!!!!!!!!!
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QuoteQuoteQuoteQuoteWhy do you want to be the dirt in a money vacuum?
ouch!
good work there man, nice.
Thanks,
fuckin' kids... never rub another man's rhubarb!
Get off my lawn!!!!!!!!!!
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That could be the BF and yer tryin' to mow that grass with yer teeth,
just sayin'
QuoteQuoteQuoteexpress interest in her, then hit on/start dating another girl in class blatantly in front of her (make sure she's just as pretty)
this stategy likely wouldnt work because seriously every other female in this class is a troll, 55 years old, or 200lbs (and in some instances, all 3).
theres only 1 other one whose good looking, and I know she has a kid and I think she might be engaged. either way, I dont think hitting on her will help this. I think our mid-40's Brazilian teacher has something for me though 8-)
Id say she knows Im interested since we talk a good bit and I ask her various things about her and what she did lately and all, and judging by the situation since shes currently taken, I dont see how I can express that more than by doing what I said in the OP
then you need to NOT express interest in her; try the opposite effect and see if it works? girls respond well to aversion (fo realz--take it from me, i have made a career out of getting turned off the min i hear a guy likes me and interested when someone ignores me)
Oh dear, if that thread would have existed a few weeks back.
The "you know tracy" advice might work, but probably not :D
Taterbug's one would be good, but stupid laws might destroy your "live happily ever after" plans, if you can handle those, go for it.
I have to agree to Goose at that "be yourself" point, if she wants a modified version, like Capt. Headdy V3000, let it go.
I don't know how far your affection (don't know if this is right) for this girl already goes, but ignoring her might be really hard. I just gave it a try, but it didn't really work out as I'm not the patient one. Don't rush into it either, especially if she has a boyfriend (which, I guess, is a total jerk, cause that's the way life goes). Meg is right too, if they are really serious, let it go too. Atleast one of three is going to get really hurt, and chances are high it's going to be you.
There are plenty of girls that lose interest if someone is showing some, but there are also a lot of girls that won't come up to you if you don't give them atleast a little bit. As none of us knows that girl, it's hard to tell what type she is, but if the showing of interest failed, try it the other way round (and get a hot girl to make her jealous, it's not necesary that she is from your class too, just show off with her (it's kinda mean towards that show-off girl, but you don't want to win a popularity contest anyways)).
And failure per se is nothing bad, and especially not if there are no hard feelings.
Final quote: Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better.
I think you picked a girl who already has a boyfriend so you can comfortably factor that into your failure quotient. You already crossed off all the other "lucky" contenders as being fat, troll like or old, then there's the teacher, who you can't get either b/c of her proffessional ethics.
Sounds like you have marked out your turf as an unattainable super stud; congratulations.
Quotewho you can't get either b/c of her proffessional ethics.
this one made me laugh :D
Get to know her...it sounds like it's not much past a classroom association yet...If she doesn't give you a strong indication that she wants to leave her boyfriend, ask her if she has any single friends that she can set you up with! Ladies love setting up their single friends with good guys! (This is assuming you're a good guy... ::) ;D)
please don't do that - i would hate that.
Let me give a little advice from the asshole's perspective here.
Last August I dumped the girl I'd been dating for a three months shy of two years and was dating another girl within three days. Not just another girl, but the girl who helped me get my thoughts together enough to break up with the long-term girlfriend. She definitely helped instigate, and I definitely had no problem with that, and so when everything was said and done, she was right there waiting and was a pretty decent backup plan.
Tough thing is, when you're looking at someone else with interest when you're already in a relationship, there's a few pretty ridiculous things that happen mentally. First, you find everything good about the person in relation to your current relationship's faults. That other person exists, to you, as a function of your current relationship. I've never seen any effective cure for this outside of just having some time to breathe your own air and get your head readjusted before beginning to date again. There's a lot of maturation and self-reclamation to be done after breaking your way out of a long-term serious relationship. All sorts of messy heartbreak and heartache--it doesn't matter if you're the one effecting the breakup or victimized by it. Unless you're completely heartless, but those people aren't any fun to date anyways.
Second problem is that you'll have to pick up after this guy. If she does decide she wants to leave him, you will inevitably have to pick up the baggage he's heaped on her. There are undoubtedly things over which it's worth it to break it off with him if she does, indeed, break it off with him. But that means that you now get to carry that weight, and that gets you a whole lot closer and a whole lot more serious than you would in most situations. Not to say this hasn't happened and worked out positively before, but for the most part, any good relationship to come out of this kind of situation is going to have a whole hell of a lot to work through to get there.
So what I would suggest is to not push at all for this girl. Give her up, romantically. Enjoy her company in class and joke around and whatnot, but I really wouldn't push to make anything happen here. Like said earlier, there's a maximum of three people to get hurt here, and a minimum of one. You will most likely have a whole lot of sweeping up to do in this situation, and that scenario escalates the seriousness of a relationship to a very incredible point very very quickly. In turn, if you find out she's not someone you want to be with, and you're already in that spot, it can be a very tricky situation to be in. Because dumping a girl after she's left a guy to be with you is an awful situation to be in.
Anywho. Sorry to blab.
What they said.
Quote
So what I would suggest is to not push at all for this girl. Give her up, romantically. Enjoy her company in class and joke around and whatnot, but I really wouldn't push to make anything happen here. Like said earlier, there's a maximum of three people to get hurt here, and a minimum of one. You will most likely have a whole lot of sweeping up to do in this situation, and that scenario escalates the seriousness of a relationship to a very incredible point very very quickly. In turn, if you find out she's not someone you want to be with, and you're already in that spot, it can be a very tricky situation to be in. Because dumping a girl after she's left a guy to be with you is an awful situation to be in.
A lot of what you said (including what I cut out) makes sense, though Im not so sure about the whole if she would leave him, our relationship is immediately serious and fast-forwarded.
As for me, I guess my verbiage in the OP seemed to make it seem like I really need to make this happen somehow and Im lovestruck with this girl. Just to clarify, I like her, we have a lot in common, and she can handle her booze, but if I dont get this to work, Im not going to be that "one" whose hurt, trust me. I think it sucks that this is the situation and the odds are against me, but no big deal if it doesnt work out the way Id like it to.
Judging by some responses, I guess it might seem like Im somehow "forcing" this on her or something and really trying pursue this so it happens, but thats not the case at all. She doesnt have my number, I havent mentioned anything even close to resembling me telling her Im interested or what she should do. I basically just feel like if she was single, Im pretty sure she'd be into doing stuff with me, but shes not, thus leading me to post this topic how I should best handle this so it ends up good for me :)
Sorry Tom, that wasnt all directed at you, just an accumulation of some responses that seem to have similarities ;D
QuoteQuote...get someone out of a relationship so you can start dating them and whatnot. Ive never been interested in someone who already has a BF enough to try to kill that relationship and get with me, so I have no idea how to pull this off.
Shes in my microbiology class with me, but it only meets once a week, which makes this even more difficult. She may or may not be living with him as well, which creates another possible challenge.
All Ive got so far is giving her my number after we and and couple other people from class go out for some drinks after the final and tell her to call me if she gets rid of her BF or just wants to get some drinks ever again.
Im screwed :-/
yeah, you kind of are. no offense.
just going to be blunt here and say my best advice would be to stay away, especially if the girl and her dude are serious enough to be living together. don't go down that road.
plenty of other chicks out there, man. :)
I have no idea what the living situation is, that was purely speculation.
And yes, I know there are plenty of ladies out there, I just like this one at the moment.
haha, sorry to read too far into it, man. did i also make up the three year thing, because i'm not seeing it in your original post...
Man I've had girls do that in the reverse situation and even the sight of them or their name alone makes me ill.
It's no good. Not your territory. Leave it?
That's what I think.
QuoteMan I've had girls do that in the reverse situation and even the sight of them or their name alone makes me ill.
It's no good. Not your territory. Leave it?
That's what I think.
This.
Headdy, I assume you've never been on the other side of this? Or maybe you have, and now you're after some poorly-aimed revenge?
You don't.
Don't play games with her. She's involved with someone else. Be her friend. Respect her. Respect her boyfriend and the fact that they are involved with one another. Don't try to control or manipulate the situation. If it's meant to be, it will be. You can't force it into something. Anything that isn't coming from or headed to a pure and positive place will not work. Even if she does leave her boyfriend there is a period people need to heal and find themselves again after each relationship. Jumping from one relationship straight into another is not healthy.
If you take anything at all away from what I'm saying let it be this- please stop the game playing. I hope we can all stop the madness. It's immature and a complete waste of energy. When 2 people like one another they should just BE together-naturally. Not dilly dally around, wait 3 days to call, or follow any of the "rules" or whatever people talk about.... This is not directed at any comments anyone has made. I've been toyed with and it makes me coo coo.
I've also watched someone carry on an affair with a married man with a couple of kids and I fear the karmic retribution she will undoubtedly face one day. I know your situation is not this intense, but you would still be flirting with bad karma.
Be a man, a stand up guy....that's always the right thing to do! :)
QuoteYou don't.
Don't play games with her. She's involved with someone else. Be her friend. Respect her. Respect her boyfriend and the fact that they are involved with one another. Don't try to control or manipulate the situation. If it's meant to be, it will be. You can't force it into something. Anything that isn't coming from or headed to a pure and positive place will not work. Even if she does leave her boyfriend there is a period people need to heal and find themselves again after each relationship. Jumping from one relationship straight into another is not healthy.
If you take anything at all away from what I'm saying let it be this- please stop the game playing. I hope we can all stop the madness. It's immature and a complete waste of energy. When 2 people like one another they should just BE together-naturally. Not dilly dally around, wait 3 days to call, or follow any of the "rules" or whatever people talk about.... This is not directed at any comments anyone has made. I've been toyed with and it makes me coo coo.
I've also watched someone carry on an affair with a married man with a couple of kids and I fear the karmic retribution she will undoubtedly face one day. I know your situation is not this intense, but you would still be flirting with bad karma.
Be a man, a stand up guy....that's always the right thing to do! :)
A lot of good stuff in that post.
QuoteYou don't.
Don't play games with her. She's involved with someone else. Be her friend. Respect her. Respect her boyfriend and the fact that they are involved with one another. Don't try to control or manipulate the situation. If it's meant to be, it will be. You can't force it into something. Anything that isn't coming from or headed to a pure and positive place will not work. Even if she does leave her boyfriend there is a period people need to heal and find themselves again after each relationship. Jumping from one relationship straight into another is not healthy.
If you take anything at all away from what I'm saying let it be this- please stop the game playing. I hope we can all stop the madness. It's immature and a complete waste of energy. When 2 people like one another they should just BE together-naturally. Not dilly dally around, wait 3 days to call, or follow any of the "rules" or whatever people talk about.... This is not directed at any comments anyone has made. I've been toyed with and it makes me coo coo.
I've also watched someone carry on an affair with a married man with a couple of kids and I fear the karmic retribution she will undoubtedly face one day. I know your situation is not this intense, but you would still be flirting with bad karma.
Be a man, a stand up guy....that's always the right thing to do! :)
Where have I said I have done or plan to do anything one would describe as forcing or manipulating?!?!! And game playing??? Gimme a break!!
Take a chill pill. If I give her my number, its her decision what she wants to do with it. If she wants to try out something with me more, then she leaves current situation. If she doesnt, she doesnt. This isnt manipulation, its a personal choice and decision. And its not like she's married for christ sake.
QuoteQuoteMan I've had girls do that in the reverse situation and even the sight of them or their name alone makes me ill.
It's no good. Not your territory. Leave it?
That's what I think.
This.
Headdy, I assume you've never been on the other side of this? Or maybe you have, and now you're after some poorly-aimed revenge?
Not revenge, and havent been on the other side of it.
If I ever was though, I certainly would get out of a relationship if I found someone Id rather be with. I dont see why some people here are having a problem with me giving my number to someone whose in a relationship and letting them do as they wish. Maybe they only read the first 2 sentences on this entire thread though ::)
QuoteQuoteYou don't.
Don't play games with her. She's involved with someone else. Be her friend. Respect her. Respect her boyfriend and the fact that they are involved with one another. Don't try to control or manipulate the situation. If it's meant to be, it will be. You can't force it into something. Anything that isn't coming from or headed to a pure and positive place will not work. Even if she does leave her boyfriend there is a period people need to heal and find themselves again after each relationship. Jumping from one relationship straight into another is not healthy.
If you take anything at all away from what I'm saying let it be this- please stop the game playing. I hope we can all stop the madness. It's immature and a complete waste of energy. When 2 people like one another they should just BE together-naturally. Not dilly dally around, wait 3 days to call, or follow any of the "rules" or whatever people talk about.... This is not directed at any comments anyone has made. I've been toyed with and it makes me coo coo.
I've also watched someone carry on an affair with a married man with a couple of kids and I fear the karmic retribution she will undoubtedly face one day. I know your situation is not this intense, but you would still be flirting with bad karma.
Be a man, a stand up guy....that's always the right thing to do! :)
[highlight]Where have I said I have done or plan to do anything one would describe as forcing or manipulating[/highlight]?!?!! And [highlight]game playing[/highlight]??? Gimme a break!!
Take a chill pill. If I give her my number, its her decision what she wants to do with it. If she wants to try out something with me more, then she leaves current situation. If she doesnt, she doesnt. This isnt manipulation, its a personal choice and decision. And its not like she's married for christ sake.
First off, take a deep cleansing breath. Relax. I'm not attacking, judging or doing anything else with you. We're all good.
I'm not implying you are trying to or have done any of these things. I'm stating what I think/know from personal experience and dealing with friends.
Take a moment to look at what the facts are.
-she's' in a relationship
I guess that's all you need to know. This woman is not available to you. Like I said before; if it's meant to be it will work itself out and be.
My point about controlling/manipulating/forcing is simply about trying to MAKE something work rather than just LETTING something work...naturally...organically.
I've already said that your situation was not as intense as my friend who carried on an affair with a married man. My point was-don't flirt with negative karma.
I want
everyone to have love/peace/happiness/bliss/connections/etc. I would never downplay or discourage anyone's happiness and connections in life. You asked for advice and
I gave you advice from my perspective.
If you feel like you should give her your number and be
clear about things then give her your number and
clearly state what your intentions are. Then, there is NO confusion, game playing, etc. Only then will you get a clear answer to the questions you seek.
Don't be upset with me. I have only positive and good intentions in my heart. ;)
I guess after reading what you wrote, you werent necessarily saying I was doing those things, just saying dont do them.
Im not upset with you, your 2 cents has been acknowledged :)
Ok. I didn't come here to ruffle feathers my sweet friend. Thank you! ;)
Damn! I totally came in to watch a fight!
QuoteDamn! I totally came in to watch a fight!
Sorry to disappoint
Maybe St John should poke his/her head out here in these parts again ;D
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If we had karma points on this board I would hand some out to Soulshine. That was some thoughtful stuff.
Quote...get someone out of a relationship so you can start dating them and whatnot. Ive never been interested in someone who already has a BF enough to try to kill that relationship and get with me, so I have no idea how to pull this off.
Shes in my microbiology class with me, but it only meets once a week, which makes this even more difficult. She may or may not be living with him as well, which creates another possible challenge.
All Ive got so far is giving her my number after we and and couple other people from class go out for some drinks after the final and tell her to call me if she gets rid of her BF or just wants to get some drinks ever again.
Im screwed :-/
There is an unspoken code between real men that you just don't go there. Seriously, how old are you?!!
QuoteQuote...get someone out of a relationship so you can start dating them and whatnot. Ive never been interested in someone who already has a BF enough to try to kill that relationship and get with me, so I have no idea how to pull this off.
Shes in my microbiology class with me, but it only meets once a week, which makes this even more difficult. She may or may not be living with him as well, which creates another possible challenge.
All Ive got so far is giving her my number after we and and couple other people from class go out for some drinks after the final and tell her to call me if she gets rid of her BF or just wants to get some drinks ever again.
Im screwed :-/
There is an unspoken code between real men that you just don't go there. Seriously, how old are you?!!
if I knew or even met the guy, it would probably be another story.
as far as Im concerned, she can do what she wants and I dont see anything wrong with that. Would you want to be the guy whose with her now but in reality she doesnt feel the same way about you? or might commit adultery further down the road?
im 24.
Dude,
Just get a really big Boner take a pic of it on your i-phone and slip it to her in class....
Either it's going to work or it's not.
QuoteDude,
Just get a really big Boner take a pick of it on your i-phone and slip it to her in class....
Either it's going to work or it's not.
;D ;D
So with 6000 posts, why arent you around here more often?
Tracy would probably say its people like me is why ::)
Mabey so, but people like you is why Tracy is going to be ahead of me in 2 months.
We all win! :)
QuoteQuote...get someone out of a relationship so you can start dating them and whatnot. Ive never been interested in someone who already has a BF enough to try to kill that relationship and get with me, so I have no idea how to pull this off.
Shes in my microbiology class with me, but it only meets once a week, which makes this even more difficult. She may or may not be living with him as well, which creates another possible challenge.
All Ive got so far is giving her my number after we and and couple other people from class go out for some drinks after the final and tell her to call me if she gets rid of her BF or just wants to get some drinks ever again.
Im screwed :-/
There is an unspoken code between real men that you just don't go there. Seriously, how old are you?!!
I agree. But people go there. I wish they didn't, but they do.
and it usually starts with a boner pic on an i-phone; sorry I let that tiger loose.
Quoteand it usually starts with a boner pic on an i-phone; sorry I let that tiger loose.
so do I seriously need to get an i-phone to do this??!??
shit >:(
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Get her drunk...
take her home...
make her cum (better than with her bf can)
and she shall be yours.
It's the power of the orgasm.
QuoteGet her drunk...
take her home...
make her cum (better than with her bf can)
and she shall be yours.
It's the power of the orgasm.
and Im the guy who makes offensive posts ::)
Just be honest with her.
Tell her you have some stolen pictures of a naked coed on your computer and see if she is interested in you sharing them with her.
Let us know how it goes.
Best,
Jon
QuoteIf we had karma points on this board I would hand some out to Soulshine. That was some thoughtful stuff.
Thanks ALady! That's mighty kind of ye! ;)
QuoteJust be honest with her.
Tell her you have some stolen pictures of a naked coed on your computer and see if she is interested in you sharing them with her.
Let us know how it goes.
Best,
Jon
Snap!
This thread is frickin' hilarious. Anyways, do what I'd do. Fuckin' armwrestle the BF. You'll show him....yeah you'll show him.............[size=9]............[/size]..........
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QuoteQuoteGet her drunk...
take her home...
make her cum (better than with her bf can)
and she shall be yours.
It's the power of the orgasm.
and Im the guy who makes offensive posts ::)
It's only offensive if you treat it that way. Only do in America do we treat sexuality as a curse and not a gift.
:-?
QuoteI'd explain to her how you think her vagina is a money vacuum...
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QuoteQuoteI'd explain to her how you think her vagina is a money vacuum...
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wow, check out this guy here. funny guy, right here. I can only hope you didnt actually spend time photoshopping that yourself (but judging by the link I just saw quoted, I guess thats a no).
duder, you seriously need to quit being tracy's new fanboi or whatever youre trying to do and give it a break. I read your initial stance on the situation this topic was about, and point taken. looking back on the first couple pages of this thread, I almost forget about the good advice I got from some people :)
I have even poked fun in here at myself, but your schtick is tired.
I have no idea how my interest in someone relates to spiders and praying mantis' either. I guess my Jack Hanna intellect is down.
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Seriously. Please. This entire thread just stinks. I think you know where most of the board stands on this subject man, and resentfully keeping an argument up (if we could even call this that) isn't really going to change any minds or make you look any better. Carnivorous insects and arachnids have no place here? You've persisted in your arguing enough that you've stopped looking less like a guy intrigued by a beauty and more like someone looking to stir up some a pretty decent amount of trouble for your own benefit, as if causing a big ruckus and getting the spoils not only justifies the effort, but glorifies your masculinity in your successful conquest for what should be considered "out-of-bounds" carnal knowledge of this girl. Yeah, I'm going to be an asshole and take Tracy's side on this, but only because you've proven yourself to be of a similar caliber on the opposite position. I've learned a few things by getting my ass handed back to me by the "old guys" around here, man.
So please: Quit it. It's just old now. And no one's having any fun seeing this at the top of the page.
Granted, page 4 of this thread had nothing valuable occur in it and was mostly just bad humor from others more than myself, but Im not sure where youre finding me argue with most people. Ive simply responded to questions people had or given my side of the story. In retrospect, this thread starting around the same time as the "current joys" escapade makes it seem like maybe my intentions had something to do with what you seemed to gleam on as you continued above, but if you just read thru my posts in here, thats not the case.
This has nothing to do with sides, and Im actually glad there seems to be opinions that run the gamut on my question/concern. I have no problem with people having a standpoint different or opposite than mine, and in this case, it just puts everything into perspective more.
That said, I did nothing to keep this thread at the top all day - over half the posts were from this noob with 3 first names as his screename, edtomjohn. I let it die in the other thread, but if this guy is going to insult me and insinuate my thoughts/actions are comparable to a spider or praying mantis, etc, im going to respond. Tracy's earned the right for me to give him leeway if he wishes to go that route and I can find humor in it. This guy, no.
QuoteTracy's earned the right for me to give him leeway if he wishes to go that route and I can find humor in it. This guy, no.
leeway: an allowable margin of freedom or variation; tolerance.
uummmm, Tom's right. The correct move would be just to stop posting on this thread. If you want home flick up there to stop giving you grief, then stop responding b/c if you keep responding, then he will continue to give you grief by posting.
So, just give him some leeway b/c if you don't, he'll keep posting. It's not a real difficult concept to wrap your brain around.
And thanks for all the leeway you have chosen to give me; I was wondering why I slept so well last night.
Sorry capn headdy :(
I was wrong and I apologize, will remove offensive posts & pics.
edtombell
So....I'd appreciate if the female perspective chimed in once again on this:
Im at a bar/restaurant I typically go to because its 1 of the few decent ones close by, and lady of interest knows I go here because I've mentioned it a few times since we have class Saturday mornings and Ive been there a few Fridays previously. This isnt downtown or anything, about 10-15 minutes outside of Pittsburgh, but she lives about 30 minutes from this spot. She's there with some friends, and boyfriend apparently as well, although during the 20-30 minutes I was talking with her no sight of this guy and she only had 1 seemingly bored friend hanging out at the same table.
So whats the deal? :o :D 8-)
QuoteSo....I'd appreciate if the female perspective chimed in once again on this:
Im at a bar/restaurant I typically go to because its 1 of the few decent ones close by, and lady of interest knows I go here because I've mentioned it a few times since we have class Saturday mornings and Ive been there a few Fridays previously. This isnt downtown or anything, about 10-15 minutes outside of Pittsburgh, but she lives about 30 minutes from this spot. She's there with some friends, and boyfriend apparently as well, although during the 20-30 minutes I was talking with her no sight of this guy and she only had 1 seemingly bored friend hanging out at the same table.
So whats the deal? :o :D 8-)
not sure i can make a prognosis based on that. i would need to know
1. had SHE ever been to that place or had she heard of it before you started mentioning it?? did she KNOW you were going to be there that night or did she assume you always went there on the weekends?
2. was she flirting w/you openly in front of her friend
3. did you hit on her friend and ignore her like i told you to do? (lol)
if she had never been to that place and knew you hung out there, i can't say for sure she went there hoping you'd be there, however, there's a slight possiblity. maybe there are so few cool bars where you live, and you promoted it so much that she wanted to check it out..not sure. i need more info....
QuoteQuoteSo....I'd appreciate if the female perspective chimed in once again on this:
Im at a bar/restaurant I typically go to because its 1 of the few decent ones close by, and lady of interest knows I go here because I've mentioned it a few times since we have class Saturday mornings and Ive been there a few Fridays previously. This isnt downtown or anything, about 10-15 minutes outside of Pittsburgh, but she lives about 30 minutes from this spot. She's there with some friends, and boyfriend apparently as well, although during the 20-30 minutes I was talking with her no sight of this guy and she only had 1 seemingly bored friend hanging out at the same table.
So whats the deal? :o :D 8-)
not sure i can make a prognosis based on that. i would need to know
1. had SHE ever been to that place or had she heard of it before you started mentioning it?? did she KNOW you were going to be there that night or did she assume you always went there on the weekends?
2. was she flirting w/you openly in front of her friend
3. did you hit on her friend and ignore her like i told you to do? (lol)
if she had never been to that place and knew you hung out there, i can't say for sure she went there hoping you'd be there, however, there's a slight possiblity. maybe there are so few cool bars where you live, and you promoted it so much that she wanted to check it out..not sure. i need more info....
I wouldnt say I
promoted this place:
http://www.tentcorp.com/
...there were just some times during class saturday mornings where we'd be talking about what we did last night, and I was at this place a few times. She knows I only live a few minutes from both school and this pub&grille. I know she had never been there before and dont think she ever heard of it before my mentioning. There's plenty of decent places in the greater Pittsburgh area to go, and like I said, she lives like a half hour from this place and actually lives closer to downtown then where this is at.
that said, she didn't know I'd be there, like say I said it earlier yesterday, but she did know I didn't do anything friday so there was a good chance I would've been doing something somewhere last night.
there was some flirting, dont know what you mean by openly though since I dont think her friend could really here what we were saying since its loud in this place, and eventually her friend went somewhere else after 15 minutes or so. It didn't even occur to me to hit on her/talk to her, probably most likely because she was a linebacker that may have me outweighed. And Im like 6'3'' 210#
I didnt really get a look at the BF, but a glance I got of a few of the guys she was with at 1 point looks like they were the collared shirt type. I might need to upgrade in some areas ;D
Damned frat boys... Hang in there, Headdy!!!
yeah hang in there. she's probably sick of the collared shirts. keep us posted.
Collared Shirts must be a big deal over there :)
First off, I just read thru this entire thread again right now. Hilarious and Great at the same time. Its amazing how much things change - both in real life and the forum - in a year. And at the same time, how some things stay the same.
That said, for those that werent around a year ago, forget what this thread was about, dont feel like reading the whole thing, or need a summary: I really liked this girl in my class that met once a week. She had a boyfriend though, and it turned out she was living with him too actually. To put it as blunt as I did in the OP, I wanted advice on what I should do to get her to break up with him and get with me.....
......fast forward to April 2010
I went out to the same bar/restaurant last night as mentioned a few posts ago (but over a year ago timewise) by me in the thread to watch the Pens game with a friend. We walk around the joint looking for the best table thats open with a TV view and find one. Sit down, and whatta ya know, our server is the girl this thread was started about. We talked for a few minutes at first, a couple more times thruout the game whenever she'd come by to drop off a couple more adult beverages, and then again once we got our bill. I told her we should hang out sometime, and she then tells me that she broke up with the guy she was with a year ago. I told her I was sorry to hear that, she said dont be bc hes a douchebag, and I told her I wasnt actually sorry but just trying to be nice ;D...she made sure I still had her number, and I told her Id call her.
What makes it even crazier is I lived 2 hours away from Pittsburgh until 2 weeks ago. I went over it briefly in the complaints thread, but I automatically failed a class because I missed the first few days due to being sick, and since 1 was a clinical day and you need to be excused by the teach and I wasnt, I failed. Since the class is only offered the 2nd half of spring semester and I needed it as a pre-req to move on, I have to wait until March 2011 to get back in the program, and because of that, it made the most sense to move back to The Burgh. A friend in the class when I told him how it went down told me everything happens for a reason and I told him "yeah", but shit, maybe he was right.
I just remembered about this thread a little bit ago, and Im not making wedding plans or anything, but how this all worked out (and the fact that I started a thread on this specific girl and how the thread ensued) makes me laugh, be amazed and in awe, and smile at the same time.
QuoteFirst off, I just read thru this entire thread again right now. Hilarious and Great at the same time. Its amazing how much things change - both in real life and the forum - in a year. And at the same time, how some things stay the same.
That said, for those that werent around a year ago, forget what this thread was about, dont feel like reading the whole thing, or need a summary: I really liked this girl in my class that met once a week. She had a boyfriend though, and it turned out she was living with him too actually. To put it as blunt as I did in the OP, I wanted advice on what I should do to get her to break up with him and get with me.....
......fast forward to April 2010
I went out to the same bar/restaurant last night as mentioned a few posts ago (but over a year ago timewise) by me in the thread to watch the Pens game with a friend. We walk around the joint looking for the best table thats open with a TV view and find one. Sit down, and whatta ya know, our server is the girl this thread was started about. We talked for a few minutes at first, a couple more times thruout the game whenever she'd come by to drop off a couple more adult beverages, and then again once we got our bill. I told her we should hang out sometime, and she then tells me that she broke up with the guy she was with a year ago. I told her I was sorry to hear that, she said dont be bc hes a douchebag, and I told her I wasnt actually sorry but just trying to be nice ;D...she made sure I still had her number, and I told her Id call her.
What makes it even crazier is I lived 2 hours away from Pittsburgh until 2 weeks ago. I went over it briefly in the complaints thread, but I automatically failed a class because I missed the first few days due to being sick, and since 1 was a clinical day and you need to be excused by the teach and I wasnt, I failed. Since the class is only offered the 2nd half of spring semester and I needed it as a pre-req to move on, I have to wait until March 2011 to get back in the program, and because of that, it made the most sense to move back to The Burgh. A friend in the class when I told him how it went down told me everything happens for a reason and I told him "yeah", but shit, maybe he was right.
I just remembered about this thread a little bit ago, and Im not making wedding plans or anything, but how this all worked out (and the fact that I started a thread on this specific girl and how the thread ensued) makes me laugh, be amazed and in awe, and smile at the same time.
I can't believe she told you I was a douchebag.
Isn't it slightly disconcerting for you that she's obviously attracted to douchebags? ;)