My Morning Jacket

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Title: Thoughts for our friend John
Post by: Crispy on Apr 05, 2014, 12:18 AM
Here's to JohnnYYac, your friend and mine, who lost his dad today. Love you, brother.  :beer:
Title: Thoughts for our friend John
Post by: Fully on Apr 05, 2014, 06:34 AM
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Post by: ericm on Apr 05, 2014, 07:43 AM
So sorry to hear about your dad passing, John. You, and your family are in my thoughts.
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Post by: weeniebeenie on Apr 05, 2014, 08:59 AM
I'm so sorry to hear about your dad, John.
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Post by: headhunter on Apr 05, 2014, 09:32 AM
Quote from: Mr. White on Apr 05, 2014, 01:07 AM
Sorry for your loss, John.

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We are thinking of you and your family.

Indeed we are.  Wishing you peace, strength and love.
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Post by: Taterbug on Apr 05, 2014, 09:58 AM
Sorry to hear about your Fathers passing John. 
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Post by: iLikeBeer on Apr 05, 2014, 11:09 AM
So sorry to hear about your father John. Know you and your family are in our thoughts as well. 
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Post by: ajclements004 on Apr 07, 2014, 12:03 AM
Thoughts and prayers are with you, Yac!
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Post by: searchinbig on Apr 07, 2014, 09:33 AM
So sorry John. May you and your family find strength in this most difficult time.
Hang in brother.
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Post by: parkervb on Apr 07, 2014, 11:36 AM
sorry for the loss.  peace and strength to you and your family
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Post by: APR on Apr 07, 2014, 12:11 PM
So sorry to hear about your loss.  Our thoughts are with you and your family.

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Post by: manonthemoon on Apr 07, 2014, 08:50 PM
Sorry to hear, keep strong.
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Post by: oistheone on Apr 07, 2014, 10:58 PM
Really sorry to hear this John, my condolences.
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Post by: LB on Apr 08, 2014, 12:10 AM
Mr. JYac, I am sorry for your loss.

I wish you the best.
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Post by: davymac on Apr 08, 2014, 06:42 AM
Sorry for your loss, John.  I'll be thinking about you and your family. 
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Post by: pattilovesmmj on Apr 08, 2014, 10:53 AM
Dear John,
I have never met you in person, yet feel like I know you.  My prayers go out to you and your family.
Your father must have been a remarkable man because, you are such a righteous person yourself.
This comforted me when my parents passed away:
John 14:2
Do not let your heart be troubled;  Believe in God and also believe in me.
In my father's house are many dwelling places.  If it were not so, I would have told you;  For I go to prepare a place for you...

God's Grace to you and yours,
Patti
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Post by: BigHerm on Apr 08, 2014, 11:48 AM
So sorry to hear this John. You and your family are in my thoughts.

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Post by: johnnYYac on Apr 09, 2014, 05:47 PM
I am so very touched by this thread.  Its been a tough week, with another to follow after Easter, when we'll do the funeral thing.  My Dad was a great guy.  His passing was a blessing, though, as he never fully recovered from the surgery and treatments that, ironically, cured his pancreatic cancer.

I will share a MMJ-related story from this last week, cut and pasted from Facebook, so some of you have read this already...

I arrived at my Dad's, straight from the airport, at 1:30am Friday. I sent my Mom, brother, and sister away to get some sleep. Dad wouldn't wake up, but I told him I was there and that I loved him. I then played the YouTube video of "I Will Be There When You Die" from Red Rocks as I sat on the edge of his bed. He stirred at the sound of the song's rising volume, yet still remained asleep. After the song ended, I kissed his forehead and watched him draw his last breath.

I called my sister to let them know Dad was gone. I also told her about playing the song. Later, when she arrived to see him before the funeral home got there, she told me my brother (who likes to give me grief for my love of MMJ) said, "So, John killed Dad with My Morning Jacket!" We laughed and laughed. It was not meant to be anything but humorous. I know he meant it that way and hope you all do as well.

Its times like these when you really appreciate the friends you have, and that includes the folks on this forum.  Thanks for the kind words while I took some time away.  It really meant a lot.

-John
Title: Thoughts for our friend John
Post by: Fully on Apr 09, 2014, 06:38 PM
John, I meant to tell you that when I read your dad's obituary I was struck by how similar the two of you are. It must have made him proud that you took after him so much. I know I feel that way about my children being similar to me.
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Post by: walterfredo on Apr 09, 2014, 07:00 PM
wow, that is beyond moving JY.  And some good humor as well.

Hang in there man, having lost my mother a few months back after a relatively short, but hard fight with cancer, I know how hard it can be.  Very awesome that you were able to be there with in the end.  The circle of life can be intense.   
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Post by: parkervb on Apr 10, 2014, 12:55 PM
thanks for sharing that story...definitely got dusty in here.  All the best...
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Post by: Jaimoe on Apr 10, 2014, 11:58 PM
My sincere condolences John, to you and your family.
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Post by: GO4IT on Apr 20, 2014, 01:12 PM
Quote from: johnnYYac on Apr 09, 2014, 05:47 PM
I am so very touched by this thread.  Its been a tough week, with another to follow after Easter, when we'll do the funeral thing.  My Dad was a great guy.  His passing was a blessing, though, as he never fully recovered from the surgery and treatments that, ironically, cured his pancreatic cancer.

I will share a MMJ-related story from this last week, cut and pasted from Facebook, so some of you have read this already...

I arrived at my Dad's, straight from the airport, at 1:30am Friday. I sent my Mom, brother, and sister away to get some sleep. Dad wouldn't wake up, but I told him I was there and that I loved him. I then played the YouTube video of "I Will Be There When You Die" from Red Rocks as I sat on the edge of his bed. He stirred at the sound of the song's rising volume, yet still remained asleep. After the song ended, I kissed his forehead and watched him draw his last breath.

I called my sister to let them know Dad was gone. I also told her about playing the song. Later, when she arrived to see him before the funeral home got there, she told me my brother (who likes to give me grief for my love of MMJ) said, "So, John killed Dad with My Morning Jacket!" We laughed and laughed. It was not meant to be anything but humorous. I know he meant it that way and hope you all do as well.

Its times like these when you really appreciate the friends you have, and that includes the folks on this forum.  Thanks for the kind words while I took some time away.  It really meant a lot.

-John

Hey John,

I never come to this section of the Forum but did today and saw this thread.  My heartfelt condolences on your Father's passing.

The story of your last moments with him bedside was very touching.  I stayed by my Father's side for several days last June when he was unresponsive and finally passed.  Many people, including medical professionals, told me that an unresponsive patient can, in fact, hear what is going on around them and hopefully that was the case with your Dad.  I'm sure that song will forever bring you back to memories of your Dad when you hear it.

I hope you and your family are doing well and are together for Easter.  Best of luck with the upcoming funeral.
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Post by: capt. scotty on Apr 24, 2014, 06:33 PM
If I didnt send my regards on FB, theyre here now. Touching story JY. Your dad sounded like an an awesome guy, which is assured because youre here now.