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Title: Funeral Music
Post by: primushead on Sep 26, 2005, 10:31 AM
I'm kind of ripping off Link's idea, but what music would you want played at your funeral?  Not to be bleak or anything, but it is kind of an interesting question.

Radiohead's "No Surprises" would be one of my picks.  Anyone else?
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: marktwain on Sep 26, 2005, 10:34 AM
When I was a melodramatic kid, and I thought I'd die of a broken heart, I wanted 'Tomorrow is a Long Time' by Dylan.

Now I'd like Corey Harris' version of 'Just a Closer Walk with Thee'
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: Alligator Gar on Sep 26, 2005, 10:56 AM
When I die I won't know what happens after. :-/
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: Specialist on Sep 26, 2005, 11:18 AM
Robert Johnson - Me And The Devil Blues

"You may bury my body down by the highway side so my ole' evil spirit can get a Greyhound bus and ride."
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: TheLink on Sep 26, 2005, 11:23 AM
you must have a reason why though.  otherwise, it is pointless.   ;)
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: dragonboy on Sep 26, 2005, 05:38 PM
I posted this elsewhere, apologies for the repeat:

Bury Me In Smoke by Down.
7mins of Pepper Keenan's (COC) heaviest & best swamp-riffs.
Perfect for any Stoner Rock fan or Reefer Head about to be cremated!
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: TheLink on Sep 26, 2005, 06:28 PM
dragon, please email me so we can disucss this.  i feel you are joking, but you may be an interesting candidate for interview.  do you mind?  you too primushead.  and mr conway, you are definitely invited.  jacket fans are welcome.  this is really something i am doing, so if you want to talk about songs you want at your funeral and why and whatever the fuck else, on camera, email me.  peace.

jbriggsmmj12@yahoo.com ;)

Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: dragonboy on Sep 26, 2005, 06:53 PM
Email sent Link - happy to help if I can!  :)
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: tomEisenbraun on Sep 26, 2005, 09:36 PM
i always thought "feelin yourself disintegrate" byt he flaming lips would be excellent, but its just a bit too hopeless, despite being such an amazingly beautiful song.

I don't know, maybe "Naked As We Came" by Iron and Wine. Such a beautiful hopeful song about living and loving and dying still in love to the one person who you spend the rest of your life with. I have good ideas of who that lady may one day be.

 ;D

love is so beautiful
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: darkglow on Sep 26, 2005, 09:44 PM
listen to the song by m83 called "in church"
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: EC on Sep 26, 2005, 09:51 PM
Quotelove is so beautiful
:)

Wellll, I was at a memorial tonight.  A lot of music was played along with a big slide show.  It was very intense, and also very beautiful, and also tremendously sad.  It was not a person I knew very well, but it was a friend of a person I do know very well.  Anyhow, what am I trying to say?  There were sad songs that made you weepy, and then there were rockin' songs that made you rock a bit in your chair.  There was almost constant music.  I liked that a lot.

I think I'll have to make a setlist for my funeral. ;)

Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: ratsprayer on Sep 26, 2005, 09:54 PM
im a pure ass at heart, and i thought id leave people with more questions than answers about me as a person when i go, so i choose

'people ain't no good'  by nick cave

 :)
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: whothrewthecake on Sep 26, 2005, 09:59 PM
if not for you - george harrison (perhaps a selfish choice?) :)
knockin' on heaven's door - dylan
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: darkglow on Sep 26, 2005, 10:00 PM
i still cannot listen to "you've got a friend" by james taylor without thinking of my oldest brother's funeral.. that was really a touchy moment for me when they played that song
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: ratsprayer on Sep 26, 2005, 10:02 PM
yeah, my uncles funeral a few years ago, my dad was in charge of music and is a huge huge skynyrd fan, so he chose a live version of 'free bird' so that song has lost all cheapness value that most peope associate with it.  i can barely listen to it at all now without getting choked up.   :'(
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: EC on Sep 26, 2005, 10:06 PM
Oh mylanta.  See, that's part of it - I wouldn't necessarily want to have people associate my favourite music with sadness...  Music is so memory-inducing.  It's like an instant trigger.  You gotta be careful.

Maybe I would pick the worst music ever.  The cheesiest, stupidest crap.  Then people would laugh, and then if they ever heard it it might make them laugh again.

Okay.  That is ENOUGH thinking about death tonight for me.
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: SMc55 on Sep 27, 2005, 04:10 AM
My cousin died about a year ago and her husband had 'Norwegian Wood' played as we entered the church. "I once had a girl, or should I say, she once had me?" It was lovely and so personal. I miss her.
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: Chills on Sep 27, 2005, 06:10 AM
QuoteMy cousin died about a year ago and her husband had 'Norwegian Wood' played as we entered the church. "I once had a girl, or should I say, she once had me?" It was lovely and so personal. I miss her.

That's really sad. I don't know what else to write.
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: TheLink on Sep 27, 2005, 08:28 AM
hey all.  good stuff.  hope you're not all too depressed now.  the point is, we all love music to a point and we should leave something on our way out.  it is always sad to lose someone you love, even if not to death.  i still miss my 1st girlfriend very much and some music i hear makes me think of her and get sad.  but, that is not the point.  if each song could tell a lil story about you, how would you want it to go down?  yea, it is rough to think about dying, but it is goin to happen anyways, so may as well pick some tunes for your funeral and explain why.  if anyone wants to help me, please feel free to email me.
thanks. 8)
jbriggsmmj12@yahoo.com

Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: corey on Sep 27, 2005, 09:11 AM
Some friends of mine have a band and they play "where the soul of man never dies", which my wife wants to use at her funeral. They play it with a little more punk influence and she really digs their version.
My grandmother had it at her funeral, but it was a more traditional bluegrass version by another group. She had lots of that kind of stuff playing at hers, which was kind of neat. I hate to say neat since it was at my grandmother's funeral, but you know what I mean. I'm not a religious person at all, but I can really dig those old bluegrass spirituals sometimes. The harmonies are amazing.

Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: SMc55 on Sep 27, 2005, 10:16 AM
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That's really sad. I don't know what else to write.

Oh Chills, didn't mean to make you sad. We had a big family party at the weekend. Her parents almost didn't go but I'm glad they did. We all thought about her and said "Gill would have loved this" without crying. It was a step forward  :)
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: Chills on Sep 27, 2005, 11:35 AM
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Oh Chills, didn't mean to make you sad. We had a big family party at the weekend. Her parents almost didn't go but I'm glad they did. We all thought about her and said "Gill would have loved this" without crying. It was a step forward  :)

Yeah, that's a cool thing  :)


Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: plank10 on Sep 27, 2005, 03:16 PM
now I have to listen to Robert Johnson.
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: primushead on Sep 27, 2005, 04:23 PM
Quotenow I have to listen to Robert Johnson.

Good call, I think I may do the same.

P.S.  If Satan is somehow roaming this board, I will be more than happy to sell my soul if I could play like Mr. Johnson  ;)
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: tomEisenbraun on Sep 27, 2005, 04:35 PM
i think maybe Gideon, from what I've heard of it, might be appropriate. Or Steam Engine. Or One In The Same, because the way it ends is perfect for a funeral. It ends on that last chord which is just a step away from resolution, and i think that's cool, because the resolution is implied, with going Home, i guess. I don;t know. Plus, it forces you to imagine that last chord, and it's major, and happy, even though the song is slow and sad sounding-ish, it ends with you imaging that last happy chord. And that's where I'll be, strummin happy chords for eternity praising the One who made me.

I most definitely want my funeral to be happy.
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: Specialist on Sep 27, 2005, 05:09 PM
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Good call, I think I may do the same.

P.S.  If Satan is somehow roaming this board, I will be more than happy to sell my soul if I could play like Mr. Johnson :)


have any of you guys seen The Search For Robert Johnson? if not, you should go out of your way to see it. That and the movie Crossroads (1986). Even though it's not about Robert directly, it is still a fine film.

next year i am making my way down to Mississippi to visit Robert's grave, well, at least the supposed grave(s) and will be visiting the famous crossroads, though i won't be making any deals.

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Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: primushead on Sep 27, 2005, 05:16 PM
Oh wow, what an incredible idea.  I'd love to see his grave/crossroads.
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: dragonboy on Sep 27, 2005, 05:47 PM
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That and the movie Crossroads (1986). Even though it's not about Robert directly, it is still a fine film.

next year i am making my way down to Mississippi to visit Robert's grave, well, at least the supposed grave(s) and will be visiting the famous crossroads, though i won't be making any deals.


That's the one with the Karate Kid & Steve Vai, right? I remember seeing that & liking it at the time.

I went to visit Jim Morrison's grave when I was in Paris. That was interesting.

I wanted to visit Nick Drake's grave after reading his biography by Patrick Humphries.
It's a very small grave that's quite hard to find in a small rural church somewhere in England.
I forget where...
It seemed to add to the Nick Drake myth perfectly.

Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: Specialist on Sep 27, 2005, 05:52 PM
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That's the one with the Karate Kid & Steve Vai, right? I remember seeing that & liking it at the time.

I went to visit Jim Morrison's grave when I was in Paris. That was interesting.

I wanted to visit Nick Drake's grave after reading his biography by Patrick Humphries.
It's a very small grave that's quite hard to find in a small rural church somewhere in England.
I forget where...
It seemed to add to the Nick Drake myth perfectly.



yeh, that's the movie, it's cheesy at times but hotdamn, it reeks of the blues.

i've seen pictures of Nick Drake's grave and it is wicked small. as for Jim Morrison's grave, my aunt lived in Paris for some time and took loads of pictures of his grave, it is pretty crazy site. I can't believe what has become of it.  I heard there is a security guard there 24/7.
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: dragonboy on Sep 27, 2005, 05:55 PM
No shit?!! Not when I went but that was something like 6 or 7 years ago so maybe they do now.
There were a lot of people there, that's for sure.
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: Billo on Oct 07, 2005, 06:20 PM
Knocking on Heaven's Door- Dylan
Death is not the End (Live) - The Waterboys
I'll be there when you die-MMJ
Spirit- The Waterboys
I know it's over - The Smiths
There's a light that never goes out- The Smiths
A Pagan Place- The Waterboys
Ava Maria- A Mass Choir
In the Celtic tradition, the wake should be festive.
 
Actually not feeling overly morbid.
Realizing its a part of life.
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: Oz on Oct 08, 2005, 10:24 AM
I'm still in doubt wether I want to have 'I will be there when you die' played at my funeral. I mean, it's more or less my favorite song of all times, but the subject makes it a bit... too obvious. And I don't like that.

One song that I definitely want at my funeral, however, is 'Wherever I lay my head' by Tom Waits. It's the most bittersweet song I ever heard and it makes me so happy and sad at the same time..

'I don't need anyone
Because I learend to be alone
Wherever I lay my head
I call my home'
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: EC on Oct 08, 2005, 03:04 PM
I'm pretty sure I want More Than Words by Extreme at my funeral.

With a slideshow/video of me in my various tapdance/synchronized swimming/jazz dance club costumes.

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Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: dragonboy on Oct 08, 2005, 09:11 PM
That's so funny!
I was thinking of starting a worst songs of all time thread with more than words in mind!  ;D
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: dragonboy on Oct 08, 2005, 09:13 PM
Wait, you were kidding right?
Not about the video (sounds great!) but about the song, right?  :-/
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: EC on Oct 08, 2005, 11:18 PM
QuoteWait, you were kidding right?
Not about the video (sounds great!) but about the song, right?  :-/
Actually, well, yes and no.  I would like that to happen, but only as a big joke that everyone would laugh at.  Maybe it would cut the extreme misery that the five hundred thousand attendees will be experiencing.  ;)

(Okay.  I'm volunteering this information, which automatically means nobody can bug me about it.  I loved that song.  When it came out, I played it so much on my tape that it broke.  It's all because of a boy, of course.  I think we made out to it in my car when I drove him home one night, and then he wouldn't talk to me anymore, and that song was all I had left.  hahaha.  Sad, but true.)
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: dragonboy on Oct 09, 2005, 06:22 PM
That's nothing - I saw their first UK show at the Astoria in London  :-[
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: EC on Oct 09, 2005, 07:07 PM
QuoteThat's nothing - I saw their first UK show at the Astoria in London  :-[
YES!!!!  Holy shit, really?!  :D hahaha.  How was it?  
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: dragonboy on Oct 09, 2005, 07:16 PM
Young, stupid & therefore didn't know any better?!!

Pornograffitti had just been released, I was a 16 year old heavy-metal kid & Nuno Bettencourt was the next-best-thing with the six string.

Not something I'm proud of!

Can't believe I'm sat here listening to Leonard Cohen talking about Extreme  ;)
Title: Re: Funeral Music
Post by: EC on Oct 09, 2005, 07:31 PM
QuoteCan't believe I'm sat here listening to Leonard Cohen talking about Extreme
Ahhhh.  See how we've grown... ;)