Dudes, I need your help.

[ALady]

EDIT - also don't agree with seeing a therapist. There's nothing wrong with you or him, you're just different.

::) ::) ::)  Seeing a therapist doesn't mean there's anything "wrong with you".  It could just mean that you perceive a problem in your life and need help working through it.  A therapist can help you discern what the core issue is and provide feedback on different ways to approach it.

We do need a generalized sex/love/relationships thread  ;D

Okay, I hate to bring this thread back on its rails but I have to address this.

Tracy suggested to see a therapist because most sexual problems are related to childhood issues.  The word issues suggest that there is an issue or a problem.  Plus, why would someone seek the council of a therapist unless they thought there was a problem or issue to address.  Wanting to have sex is not an issue unless the person you're committed to isn't interested, no need to seek a therapist, maybe a new boyfriend but not someone to talk to other than friends which is what Meg is doing. 

Didn't mean to offend you, Alady, but tell your therapist I said hi.  ;)

A new boyfriend?  Sounded to me like meg likes her boyfriend just fine, aside from this one issue, which happens to be something that a neutral third party like a therapist can help you figure out.  There is nothing wrong with seeking out help; friends can be biased and they don't always have all the answers. 

And yes, I do have a therapist.  Real classy trying to shame me for it 

meg, I apologize for disrupting your thread.  Going to go get an Alabama Hot Pocket now.  ;)

[Fully]

Other questions:

Do dudes dig it when chicks talk dirty?

Should I try "dressing up" more? I know walking around the house in my old t's and a pair of panties ain't all that sexy.

The question should be, "do you dig it when you talk dirty or dress up?" If it gets your motor running, then it should get his in fifth gear. Unless your into some really weird stuff, hot pocket.

[tdb810]

ALL Jacket forum members are sex freaks.  I don't have hard evidence, I just know it to be true.  And that's all I will say about that.   

PS-good luck Meg, hope he comes around  ;)

[megalicious]

Other questions:

Do dudes dig it when chicks talk dirty?

Should I try "dressing up" more? I know walking around the house in my old t's and a pair of panties ain't all that sexy.

The question should be, "do you dig it when you talk dirty or dress up?" If it gets your motor running, then it should get his in fifth gear. Unless your into some really weird stuff, hot pocket.

I'm not Hot Pocket wierd, but I do love me some kink.
;)

[Fully]

Also, probably not a good idea to tell him that the entire forum has discussed this issue. Even though it's obvious we all just wanted to talk about sex.

[megalicious]

Also, probably not a good idea to tell him that the entire forum has discussed this issue. Even though it's obvious we all just wanted to talk about sex.

Fo sho. That shall not be discussed.
:-X

[megalicious]

we should just rename this the sexytimes thread.

[ALady]

Even though it's obvious we all just wanted to talk about sex.

;D  It doesn't take much, does it.

[pawpaw]

Other questions:

Do dudes dig it when chicks talk dirty?

Should I try "dressing up" more? I know walking around the house in my old t's and a pair of panties ain't all that sexy.

The question should be, "do you dig it when you talk dirty or dress up?" If it gets your motor running, then it should get his in fifth gear. Unless your into some really weird stuff, hot pocket.

I'm not Hot Pocket wierd, but I do love me some kink.
;)

I like being playfully nasty, crossing the line, but come on...there's nothing sexy about poop. Nothing.

[Penny Lane]

signature worthy..

and tell that to THIS guy:

[pawpaw]

signature worthy..

;D

Oooh, urinary tract infection. Sexy!

[mjk73]

I'm kinda glad I stayed away all day. This might be the greatest thread ever.

This explains it all. I miss these guys.

Bob and Tom "Cleveland Steamer"

[mjk73]

titties

[Penny Lane]

The Great Blumpkin, Charlie Brown..

OMG I'll stop! Don't ban me...

[megalicious]

Other questions:

Do dudes dig it when chicks talk dirty?

Should I try "dressing up" more? I know walking around the house in my old t's and a pair of panties ain't all that sexy.

The question should be, "do you dig it when you talk dirty or dress up?" If it gets your motor running, then it should get his in fifth gear. Unless your into some really weird stuff, hot pocket.

I'm not Hot Pocket wierd, but I do love me some kink.
;)

I like being playfully nasty, crossing the line, but come on...there's nothing sexy about poop. Nothing.

Yeah. Poop is gross. Way gross. Didn't mean to imply I'm that kind of gal.

I'm more into light kink: dirty talk, smacking each other around, hair-pulling, etc.

[megalicious]

The Great Blumpkin, Charlie Brown..

OMG I'll stop! Don't ban me...

Kentucky Fried Blumpkin?
:o

[Penny Lane]

The Great Blumpkin, Charlie Brown..

OMG I'll stop! Don't ban me...

Kentucky Fried Blumpkin?
:o

it's actually KFCC (Kentucky Fried Chicken Cutlet) and that is a beach activity...that might get him in the mood...

[Tracy 2112]

Okay, I hate to bring this thread back on its rails but I have to address this.

Tracy suggested to see a therapist because most sexual problems are related to childhood issues.  The word issues suggest that there is an issue or a problem.  Plus, why would someone seek the council of a therapist unless they thought there was a problem or issue to address.  Wanting to have sex is not an issue unless the person you're committed to isn't interested, no need to seek a therapist, maybe a new boyfriend but not someone to talk to other than friends which is what Meg is doing. 

Didn't mean to offend you, Alady, but tell your therapist I said hi.  ;)

Ok, if you're going to "quote" me and disagree with me, at least QUOTE ME CORRECTLY. What I said> I say talk to a therpaist b/c most of the issues we have in relationships (and our inability to solve them) stem from unresolved childhood shit, IMO. And by relationships, I also mean the relationship you have with yourself and your environment.

I didn't say "most sexual problems" I said  RELATIONSHIPS.
R E L A T I O N S H  I P S.
Hell, I didn't even say therapist, I said THERPAIST! And who doesn't need a good therpaist?  ;D

carry on

[pawpaw]

Other questions:

Do dudes dig it when chicks talk dirty?

Should I try "dressing up" more? I know walking around the house in my old t's and a pair of panties ain't all that sexy.

The question should be, "do you dig it when you talk dirty or dress up?" If it gets your motor running, then it should get his in fifth gear. Unless your into some really weird stuff, hot pocket.

I'm not Hot Pocket wierd, but I do love me some kink.
;)

I like being playfully nasty, crossing the line, but come on...there's nothing sexy about poop. Nothing.

Yeah. Poop is gross. Way gross. Didn't mean to imply I'm that kind of gal.

I'm more into light kink: dirty talk, smacking each other around, hair-pulling, etc.

;D I didn't think you were that kind of girl, was just weighing in on poop.

[Fully]

Okay, I hate to bring this thread back on its rails but I have to address this.

Tracy suggested to see a therapist because most sexual problems are related to childhood issues.  The word issues suggest that there is an issue or a problem.  Plus, why would someone seek the council of a therapist unless they thought there was a problem or issue to address.  Wanting to have sex is not an issue unless the person you're committed to isn't interested, no need to seek a therapist, maybe a new boyfriend but not someone to talk to other than friends which is what Meg is doing. 

Didn't mean to offend you, Alady, but tell your therapist I said hi.  ;)

Ok, if you're going to "quote" me and disagree with me, at least QUOTE ME CORRECTLY. What I said> I say talk to a therpaist b/c most of the issues we have in relationships (and our inability to solve them) stem from unresolved childhood shit, IMO. And by relationships, I also mean the relationship you have with yourself and your environment.

I didn't say "most sexual problems" I said  RELATIONSHIPS.
R E L A T I O N S H  I P S.
Hell, I didn't even say therapist, I said THERPAIST! And who doesn't need a good therpaist?  ;D

carry on

Ok, now I'm offended. I only go to my therepaist when I've had a hot pocket. Thanks for shaming ME, Tracy!.  ;D